3 pieces of advice you never heard about lasting real relationships.
2 Relationships we always discuss. Friend. Lover.
And there is one relationship with parents that sometimes we don’t want to explain.
1. Relationship with a friend.
“Have a Good Friend will take you far in life.” — Max Razor
Most people only ask for help and give nothing.
Start doing this, Ask about your friend’s business/work and ask about their life and what they’re doing. After you get an answer, offer them help.
- What can I do to help you?
- How can I help you?
By offering this help, you show them you care.
You want the best for them and you can improve your skill set if you help them and gain experience along the way.
I want to share a quote from ancient times: Happiness is an expression of the soul in considered actions. — Aristotle
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2. Relationship with a lover.
“The heart is forever making the head its fool.” — Francois de La Rochefoucauld
It’s hard to think when your mind is full of love. Best thing is to learn how you can assist one another, in the endeavor of adventure.
Not by communication. Use understanding.
We don’t like to always tell people we love what we want, because we don’t really think about what we really want.
We want understanding. If our partner can understand our feelings and calmly touch our heart with their actions. Life is so beautiful.
You need to show affection the right way.
The right way to show affection, by asking about what your lover really likes to do and asking about family life.
After that, offer something.
Offer your lover, by saying what you like me to do.
Offer your lover, by saying I have few suggestions for our love life.
Just start making something, because life is mundane and boring.
You can make something fun by interacting in a non condescending way.
Make it easy and fun.
Do Not do this everyday. You become annoying.
